Living in the memory of our life is something like living with the bond to the hell or heaven of the material world. Some of the human being can adapt and live it well. They just throw away the bad memory and embrace the life and gain new memory and experience. While the others, stuck inside the memory and can’t get used to it. This situation divides into two different states.
The first state occurs with simple complexity of life. People who stuck in the memory and can’t get used to it but believe that life also must go on. Usually this kind of people was keeping the dark memory deep inside. With or without conscious, they try to move on and using that memory to avoid them to fall into the same situation again. The bright side of this is people can get through to all situations. While on the other hand, this kind of people might face obstacles such as hurting themselves internally. Some of the psychologists believe that this kind people will used the fake happiness or the hypocrite term to disable society in reading their emotion even this way hurting them internally and emotionally.
The second state occurs with dark complexity of life. This kind of people stuck in the memory and can’t get used to it and at the same time they believe this is the end of this world. They stop to take care of themselves. They quit to get involve in the real material world. Usually this kind of people was extremely manipulated by the issue. And they were weak in term of morality and ethics. They will blame the faith or the worst part of it they didn’t believe any kind of ancient dogma. This kind of people needs support from the society in term of internal helps. By keeping them in this situation making they feel like there was no solution in this world. What they need is keep moving forward by hoping there will be light in the middle of the darkness.
Pity, sympathy, compassion, concern, commiseration and empathy were only terms that distributed by the society while the matter of fact, usually in the reality, society forgot to lend their hand to the victims of the situation.
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